Monday, November 14, 2011

Salesman of the Year

I feel like the title of this post doesn't do it justice. It's a title, but in this title, there is more than "salesman" included, at least to the trained eye (mine). I want to scream from the roof tops that my husband was the number one salesman of the year for his company, but in doing that he was also number one husband, number one dad, and number one friend all at the same time. It deserves to be acknowledged because he worked so hard at ALL of the above listed, not just his job as a salesman.

I won't lie and say that getting here this year wasn't hard. It was definitely HARD. If you don't know already what Pete does, he does sales/marketing for a home security company based out of Utah called Pinnacle Security. His job is different than most, it takes him away from our home in Clovis for the entire 4 months of the summer. 4 months out of each year is a lot, and definitely takes a toll on him and us as a family as well. It is hard and trying emotionally and physically to pack up your family and move them temporarily to another state EVERY year. But his job doesn't end and begin with the summer months, in the off-season he is still training, hiring, recruiting, managing an office and selling accounts. It is a tireless and time-consuming job that in a sense, has no real office hours. He is on-call 24/7 it seems. When a client calls, he answers, when there is a last minute problem, he fixes it. I will admit that I give him a HARD time about separating work time and family time because I have a hard time dealing with the blurred lines of it all. He has put up with a lot of my whining about it this year too. (Sorry Pete)

At the end of the year, Pinnacle has an awards ceremony for their salesman and for their technicians. It was held in Orem, Utah this past weekend. Normally I would send Pete off by himself to enjoy it with his team but this year he mentioned that he wanted Harlow and I there, and I wanted us there to support him in such a great achievement. We left on Thursday afternoon and arrived that evening. Utah is cold! I know this, but still wasn't prepared for it. It actually snowed for a few seconds too while we were in Salt Lake. On Friday afternoon/evening, Pete had to be away at manager meetings so Harlow and I were left to do what we do best, find a mall thanks to iPhone maps and do some exploring. Saturday was the awards ceremony and we headed home on Sunday morning.

On Tuesday, before we had even left for the trip, I noticed that Harlow felt warm. She was also being clingy and emotional. I took her temperature and sure enough she had a fever. Her fever never went down until about Friday. I must state, Harlow is normally a really sweet, well behaved child. But, this past weekend I think I would have called myself a liar. I have NEVER been more overwhelmed by her in my life. On top of the stress of traveling, try traveling with a sick and emotional baby. And it turns out that she didn't just have a fever, she had Roseola too. On Friday morning I noticed a patch of red spots on her forehead and cheeks. And by Saturday it covered almost all of her body. She was irritable, emotional, and clingy. I don't think she ate more than milk, Jamba Juice, water and crackers for 4 days. She wasn't sleeping well either, but she usually never does in a hotel. Luckily by Sunday she was feeling a little better and I could catch glimpses of her usual self. And today her rash is gone and she has eaten 3 full meals and snacks and has been in a great mood. Whew! She sure knows how to make a trip exciting...

We had a few of the mornings free so we hit up a park and watched some of the Pinnacle employees play flag football. Nothing like a little swinging and sliding to turn a toddlers mood around. We didn't last long because it was so cold.


Check out those mountains! They are beautiful!


Dad was having a hard time fitting through the slide.










Saturday night was the awards ceremony. And guess what we were greeted by when we first walked in! This handsome picture of my husband :) A HUGE poster-size picture I might add.


Pete's dad drove up from St. George, Utah to be there for Pete's award too. We are so glad we got to see him and Harlow immediately warmed up to him. Even though she was sick. Don't mind her "say cheese" face. I'm told she'll grow out of it. (Fingers crossed)


These 3 definitely look related.


The even was held at the Capitol Theater which was a great, old restored theater.


We started off by sitting in our reserved seats in the front but ended up sitting in the very back, alone, so Harlow could be her emotional, crabby self all she wanted without bothering anyone else (but me of course). Here is Harlow having her 382576835 temper tantrum of the weekend. So instead of comforting my child I decided to document it for future blackmail and took pictures of her terrible moment.




Please excuse the off-center and blurry pictures. I had a screaming toddler on my hip but I didn't want to miss this moment.


Pete walking down to the stage for his Top Salesman of the Year award.










Harlow finally relented a little and passed out dead asleep on the floor of the theater. Yes, I am that mom. I was at my wits end so I didn't object when she fell asleep on the dirty floor. I just went with it and embraced the fact that she wasn't crying anymore.


Pete was also given this Nixon ceramic watch. A ridiculously expensive watch he has always wanted but would never buy for himself. He deserves it!


On our way home at the airport. She was so excited about all the airplanes.




I wish I had gotten more pictures of this weekend. Maybe next year...

Harlow and I are so proud of Pete and his accomplishments. He was not only top salesman of the year but he also was number one manager for personal sales of 289 accounts but was also in the top 10 for summer managers. And in the 200 club for selling more than 200 accounts.

I love that he works so hard, and works so hard for US. We are truly blessed to have Pete looking out for our family. By working so hard it makes it possible for me to stay home with Harlow, which has always been important to me and to him. For now we make big sacrifices for bigger rewards in the end. Thank you Pete, we love you!

Thursday, November 3, 2011

19 Months Old

Another month down and so, so, so many more to go! I caught myself tonight, holding Harlow in the rocking chair while trying to put her to bed, thinking about what she was like just a few months ago. Before the summer, before she even knew how to walk. In 6 short months she has become her own person. I can talk to her and really know that she understands me, she gets it. She knows when I mean business and she knows how to play the situation (to get her way). This kid is SMART! Thinking about all the changes that have occurred got my a little teary eyed actually. Even though I talk about her age in months, shes really a toddler, a little person, a kid almost. She is NOT a baby. And that truly makes me sad. But a happy sort of sad. She is thriving and growing and turning into such a sweet girl. She makes me so proud I could burst. But I'm sure all moms say that.

When I compare her milestones from 18 months to 19 months I feel like there is no stopping her. Each day is new and different. I think I spoke too soon when I said she wasn't so clingy anymore. We still have issues of "mommy hold me" all day long. It leaves me feeling frazzled by the end of the day. Its not until the end of the night, when she is already asleep, that I regret not holding her every time she asks. I know, its not good for me to indulge her, and if I did my house would be a disaster. But I have to keep reminding myself that it's not the end of the world, and one day not too far from now, she won't want me to hold her, let alone hold her hand or kiss her cheek. So maybe it's a joint battle for us, finding the balance of it.

Harlow doesn't talk in one word commands anymore, she speaks full sentences. Some days she says things that really freak me out. It leaves me stunned. First of all, where did she hear this, and secondly, how does she know what that means? Her comprehension is also growing. Tonight during bath time, Pete told Harlow to squeeze the turtles tummy to make the water squirt out. She tried, and was having a hard time getting the water to come out. So he told her to put the other toy down and use two hands to squeeze the tummy. She immediately did it and squealed with delight when she got it to work.

Today I also went and got a pedicure during Harlow's nap time. (Don't worry, Pete was home.) When I got back and she woke up, she immediately noticed my toes and said, "mommy painted toes". I asked her if she wanted me to paint her toes too and she got up and walked over to the stairs and said "yeah, come on". So, I painted her 10 little piggies bright pink today.

I'm having a hard time keeping up with all the new things she can say. But here is a short (not so short) list of her newest words/sentences.

One more cheese please mommy
One more time
Right here
Right there
Draw picture please
Read a book
Car wash
Hurry hurry
Here you go
Carrots
Cucumbers
Pizza
Turn around
Zebra
Goat
Elephant
Hold me
We're home
Close your eyes
Go ahead
I got it
Sticker
Look at that
Find animals
Open door
Hold me mommy
Tigger
Pooh Bear
Piglet
Eyore
Brianna
Grandma B
Conichiwa (Japanese)
Ni Hao (Chinese)
Hola (Spanish)
Abracadabra
1, 2, 3, 4, 5
ABCDE
I'm
Cleaning
Scrub scrub
So cool
Do you hear it?
What's that?
Scare mommy
It's scary
Chair
Have it?
Go for a ride
I swimming
Daddy go work
Come back here
Ride a bike
Baby sleeping
Ocean
Get out
They're kissing
Come back here right now
Pillow
Mommy hold this
I say, What does the mommy say? and Harlow says, I love you!
She says the same for What does daddy say?
If you ask her what the wolf says she will howl.
And if you ask her what the rooster says, she does the cock-a-doodle-do
Put water on the table
Take a bite
Movie
Coach Susi
Coach Chelsea
Not right now
Nice doggie
Monster
Happy Halloween
Trick or treat
Pumpkin
Lotion
Tinkerbell
Phone
I did it!
What's that?
Come on
Happy day to you (Harlow's version of happy birthday)
Look it
Banana
Broccoli
Starfish
Jellyfish
Super
Wiggle wiggle
Tickle
Paint toes
I'm sorry
Dora
Diego
Boots

Whew! These lists are getting ridiculous. And the sad part is, this is not nearly all of it! Until next time, enjoy these pictures we took today! Brace yourself, there are a lot!































This is her, What does a monster/dinosaur/lion say?






















Such pure innocent child-like joy!